Priscilla didn’t ask me personally such a thing. But after reading her February 12 viewpoint piece into the worldwide Times, titled “Chinese guys: pull your weight”, I was thinking she needed some responses — specially when it comes down to locating an excellent man that is chinese. Therefore I decided to pre-empt my scheduled Q&A this, to help Priscilla week.
Here’s an excerpt, where she talks about her curiosity about dating Chinese males — but shortage of suitors:
One girl in a circle of buddies chooses to offer A chinese guy a opportunity and it is surprised to find out, he’s pretty cool. Others additionally begin testing the waters: flirting with this attractive Chinese man in a uniform, dancing because of the tall one during the club, possibly even venturing to have a fling or two. As soon as the blinkers are lifted, women, you’ll realize that you might be really in the middle of appealing males.
But i’m composing this as an enlightened international woman with several foreign woman buddies and I also can’t think about just one that is dating a guy that is chinese.
one explanation i will physically attest to is a lack of effort by Chinese males.
She concludes the piece by exhorting all would-be Chinese suitors to “man-up” — be a guy that is real and acquire the courage to inquire of Western women away.
Priscilla, certain — in some instances, Chinese guys could decide to try harder ( by having a caveat ). But what amount of will read your article? As well as those, how many will alter? Continue reading Ask the Yangxifu: How Western Women Can Meet Chinese Men in China